When you do (almost) anything in life what you should always
possess is confidence. Confidence will always exist in every single
individual and what you can do is to exercise it. Nevertheless, confidence is
free and inborn, it’s already in you but you just need to embrace it a little
more. For instance, you might be an oversized woman, who wears what she wants
but always get judged by the glaze of other people. What you can do is to take
in a deep breath and tell yourself “No matter what, I’m looking my best today.”
I don’t want anyone to be wear what’s consider as conform or what’s normal
because style is all about being an individual “Style defines you.” As cheesy
as it sounds, this statement will always be apply. Also, you should NOT judge what
people are wearing if you’re a good stylist, in contrast, what you can give is encouragement
(tips and tricks to develop thei style). Style isn’t something you should be
make fun off because it’s personal, it has its story behind it. I don’t like
people going around saying “Look how weird she looks.” or “I think she would
look better not wearing that.” Trust me if she thinks she looks better wearing
something else, she would have wore it. Style will always tie itself to “confidence”
what feels like your skin when you’re wearing it. “Do you feel good about
yourself when you walk out the door?”
For years, I’ve been told by the society I’ve lived in to
wear something conform or in this sense “NORMAL”. Everyday I wore t-shirt and
jeans but I’ve always had my little secret affair with clothes that are a
little bit threat to the sight, or in other words the “Nobody would wear that”
kinda clothes. However, once in a while I would take them out and try it but
never had the guts to walk out the door with that. Until one day, I saw a quote
on Tumblr said by Lady Gaga “You laugh at me because I’m different, I laugh at
you because you’re all the same.” This really triggered my mind into thinking “Do
I really want to look the same and regret looking back in twenty, thirty years?”
Do I really want to wear those “nobody would wear that” clothes to myself, and
no showing it off to the world? Then I came to my conclusion “Heck! No!” I
would want to be happy with what I’m wearing no matter if I’m skinny or fat. I’ll
wear what I want, and care for no eyes upon me. That’s what I want you all to
do “To embrace your style and be yourself” (as long as it’s your size and you’re
able to put yourself in it, it’s okay to wear it.) Ever since, I’ve never look
back!
“Because we believe, women do not wear clothes. They wear
confidence.”- Club Gypsy
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